This is a slightly more personal post than I would usually choose to write but the plants that have caught my attention this week have all reminded me of people in my life – past and present. It’s not meant to be maudlin and having plant triggers to remember important people in your life is, I think, a great comfort.
A very old Rose
This pretty pink rose was the first to flower in my garden. It’s a crazy uncontrolled shape and is never pruned save for taking off branches that obstruct the path. It’s pretty old and gnarled and certainly preceded our tenure in this house.
When news of Coronavirus hit, my immediate thoughts were to my 106 year old Aunt Rose, who lives in a care home in Leeds. This week it was confirmed that she tested positive for Covid-19 but so far has no symptoms.
Rose is a cracking lady, who like other people her age has seen off two world wars and the Spanish Flu. My father had a pun about her we liked to share – “Auntie Rose sat on a pin, auntie rose.” Think about it.
Her favourite pun on visiting was always “Leeds leads” – that one works better when spoken of course because the spelling gives it away. It shows how much she loves her home city and felt it much superior to my home town, Sheffield.
Rosemary
Throughout history, Rosemary is a plant that has come to signify remembrance. It was traditionally used by ancient Romans as part of their burial ceremonies. It is also used on Anzac Day in Australia to remember members of the armed forces lost in war. The plant was said to grow wild around Gallipoli, where the Anzac forces fought fierce battles in World War II.
This week I bought several new rosemary plants, mail-order from PepperPot Herbs and potted them up in terracotta containers. I wanted them partly because our lockdown cooking has decimated the plants we already had, and partly to help me remember a dear family member who died last week.
Rosemary was married to my late father and was a keen gardener, successful business woman and valued friend and confidant. She had a beautiful pencil drawing of a rosemary plant in her kitchen, which I would look at often during our weekly tea-time chats.
These potted rosemary plants will remind me of her.
Boozy Pelargonium
This beautiful potted pelargonium is called Pelargonium ‘Double Dymond’. It’s named after a chap called Ken Dymond but that’s not why I bought it. The name, whilst spelt differently, reminded me of my Grandfather Ernest, who died long ago. He worked for the brewers Ind Coope, purveyors of the ale ‘Double Diamond’.
It wasn’t in flower when I bought it during a visit to Fibrex Nurseries last autumn but I’m so pleased the name sign-posted me to this purchase. It’s a stunning double pelargonium in sumptuous burgundy edged with pale pink. What a plant!
Fizzy Pelargonium
This is a new purchase and I realise it’s not terribly interesting to look at yet. If I tell you it’s name is Pelargonium ‘Cola Bottles’ though, your interest may be sparked.
When you rub the leaves you do get a scent of cola. It’s not the scent of the top branded cola drinks, however, but the cheaper brands that my grandparents would buy in for our visits.
Lily of the Valley – Convallaria majalis
Lily of the valley grows in several large clumps in my garden, deep shady areas which see no sun at all. I find the fluted bell shaped flowers so beguiling and the scent is unique and delightful. In this clump, wild vetch is intermingling with the Lily of the Valley and I think it looks charming.
This plant really reminds me of my late mother, who died 20 years ago, well before her time. She had a large clump of this at the edge of our Sheffield flagstone yard, next to the coal shed. On receiving her cancer diagnosis her dear wish was to see her spring flowers bloom and we were all so grateful that she did.
The Covid Tree
Look at this cracking new cherry tree and rainbow of pansies. This is in the front garden of the Manchester contingent of our family. Like many families, more time at home has meant more time in the garden, a hobby I’m delighted to see them embrace.
This pretty cherry ‘The Bride’ has been nicknamed by them “the Covid Tree”. My brother in law is a Consultant and this delightful tree will remind them of this difficult time but of the resilience of their family and his NHS colleagues.
This seasonal diary is part of a weekly link-up of garden bloggers from around the world, called Six on Saturday. For more information and links to other blogs crammed with gardening activity, check the blog of host The Propagator.
What a lovely post. I agree with you that certain plants are that link and spark memories. May your Aunt Rose, rise about it all, and hurrah for her wonderful resilience. Have a good week.
Hi Noelle, wishing you a good week too and I hope your plants spark some happy memories for you this week.
Memory plants in a garden are special plants.
I think that we sometimes buy them because a faint memory or a name-association draws us to them. We often make the purchase without even realising the hidden meaning that has drawn us to that particular plant.
Lovely post.
Thanks Catherine and yes the subliminal is something that often influences me in my plant purchases.
Another wonderful thing about plants is the memories they invoke. Really, they just keep on giving. A lovely six.
Thanks Gill. We’re all plant fans here of course but you’re right, the memories just add that extra bit of emotion to our connections with them.
Wonderful Six Katharine and good idea to associate a plant with a memory. I also have a Covid tree but not for the same reasons… It’s because I planted during lockdown. It’s an eucalyptus gunnii ‘Azura’.
I hope you share pics of your covid tree soon. I think there are quite a few Covid plantings out there…
A lovely Six. Wishing your Auntie Rose all the very best. It took me almost the entire post to get the Autie Rose sat on a pin thing!
I’m laughing at the thought of your trying to work that out. It’s subtle but very much suits my family’s sense of humour. No news on Rose as yet…
Such nice memories and way to remember loved ones by plants. The rosemary looks lovely in the terracotta. Rosemary is really “for remembrance,” as Shakespeare wrote, studies have proven the aroma does help us remember.
Hi Lisa, yes I’s read that about Rosemary. I really am pretty forgetful nowadays. Maybe I should give it a sniff every day!
Wonderful Six this week
My mother too is associated with Lily of the Valley which were her favourite and coincide with her birthday at the end of the month. Hence they are growing on all her ashes in our garden.
Did you buy a Pink Rosemary? I’ve had one failure so far but intend to try again.
Thanks for all the Stockist links
Now, I’ve never seen pink Rosemary so you’ve definitely got my interest piqued there! Lily of the Valley is no evocative and that’s a lovely memory of your mum. Thanks for sharing.
Such a thoughtful post. The rosemary looks lovely in the pot you’ve chosen.
Thanks Hortus. I think this week’s post reflects the things I’ve been thinking about this week. The sadness of Rosemary, the hope for Rose and how pleased I am at the Manchester fam’s fabulous new tree. Life is sad and happy and everything in between right now.
Wishing your Aunt Rose a speedy recovery. Lovely story about the Covid Tree as well. I suppose I have a Covid tree now as I just planted a new Acer in a big pot.
Thanks Paul, no news as yet on Rose. I wonder how many covid trees there are across the country? I suspect quite a few. I wish your acer many happy years of growth.
lovely. no, YOU’VE got something in your eye.
Now I know why you’re wearing sunglasses in your avatar!